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Couples Therapy

As a wife and hopeless romantic, I can speak first hand to the pain of experiencing a relationship with my partner that was not what I had expected or prepared for. I believe in couples therapy because I have been a participant in it and know that it was one of the greatest gifts to my own marriage. When we are not in a place of feeling safe and connected to our partner, our whole life can feel out of sorts. The work of therapy takes commitment and time, but has the power to make lasting change in your marriage or relationship.

Together we will work to identify the patterns of your relationship, and begin to find new ways to interact that increase feeling safe with your partner/spouse, and increase emotional connection. The first few sessions are more focused on gathering information and helping to name your core patterns of behavior. By allowing each of you to have space to be heard, we can begin to change the ways you interact with one another.

Not all couples come to therapy to save their relationship. In some cases I understand that the best outcome is helping you separate in a healthy and respectful process. When that goal is identified, I am here to offer support and give each of you space to share your concerns and fears. Even ending a relationship can be full of love and emotional connection.

If you are someone who likes to do this work on your own, there is some amazing research and field work happening in Couples Therapy these days. Two of our greatest resources are Dr. Sue Johnson and Dr. John Gottman. I would recommend that you begin by reading Dr. Sue Johnson's book, "Hold Me Tight" or Dr. Gottman's "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" or "The Relationship Cure."

Gottman Method Couples Therapy 

How To Get Started

If you'd like to get started with therapy, give me a call to schedule an appointment at 612-305-8606