Now located at 1123 Grand Ave in St Paul

In Tandem Counseling is a collective of trauma-informed therapists in a shared space. Offering individual, couple, and family therapy.



Hello and welcome!

I am Kelly Haase, owner of In Tandem Counseling. So glad you stopped by. Trying to find a new therapist can be both an exciting and sometimes intimidating or scary process, but so worth it! Having the right person is important and changes everything, so feel free to snoop around and see if we might be a good fit for each other and let us know if you have any questions. We would love to talk with you.


The therapists at In Tandem Counseling are systemic thinkers. This means we believe that we are all a product of our experiences, our families, and the people we have met and interacted with along the way. Our interactions of joy, love, pain, and struggle form our beliefs and thoughts about the world and ourselves. We are complicated and beautiful people!

We do not believe that people are broken and need to be fixed. Each of us is acting out of our best abilities in any given moment.  But sometimes the ways we learned to function as children or in an earlier relationship becomes disruptive to us as adults. We need to understand the root causes of our pain so that we can change our maladaptive patterns.

How Change Happens:

Healing comes through sharing our story, increasing a greater understanding of ourselves, engaging with empirically-sound practices, and committing to change. One of the reasons I love being a therapist is that I get the pleasure of joining others in their journey of discovery and finding their own path. Through this journey you can recognize the lovable and valuable qualities about yourself, while rewiring your brain to more effective behaviors and interactions!

Please feel free to explore each therapist’s bio page to help choose your best fit! We would be happy to offer a free 15 minute consultation for your convenience.

Book Recommendations:

General self awareness and self help:

Brene Brown: Daring Greatly, Rising Strong, Braving the Wilderness

Rick Hanson: Resilient

Blog addressing anxiety, depression, parenting, and more: Hey Sigmund

Any work by Thich Nhat Hahn and his site

For Couples:

Sue Johnson: Hold Me Tight, Love Sense

John Gottman: The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, The Relationship Cure, and Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

Amir Levine: Attached

Esther Perel: Mating in Captivity, The State of Affairs

For Trauma:

Bessel Van Der Kolk: The Body Keeps the Score

Janina Fischer: Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors

Peter Levine: Waking the Tiger, Healing Trauma, and Trauma and Memory

Robert Scaer: The Trauma Spectrum: Hidden Wounds and Human Resiliency, The Body Bears the Burden: Trauma, Dissociation, and Disease, and 8 Keys to Brain-Body Balance (8 Keys to Mental Health)

For Parenting:

Tina Payne Bryson and Daniel Siegel: The Whole Brained Child ,  The Yes Brain, No Drama Discipline, and The Power of Showing Up

Questions? Check out the FAQ page

How To Get Started

If you’d like to get started with therapy, choose your therapist and contact them directly, or call Kelly Haase, LMFT at 612-305-8606

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